Friends, Everyone has his own dictionary i.e.concept after the words. &when someone speaks he means meaning he knows while listener hears throgh his own dictionary,hence misunderstanding arises. The meaning loaded by the speaker does not reach to listner & whatever listner receives is not loaded by speaker, hence misunderstanding arises. The real problem is that we can't express our feelings exacly, because every language is has very limited words.We can name the material things easily but real problem comes when when we have to express our feelings, then every language shrinks & we can't give words to our feelings & what ever is understood it depends upon the listner. & everyone don't have the same experiences,so every one is not able to understand our feelings.That's why we are unable to share with other's. So we continuesily search the right person to understand us, but rarely we meet the person who understand us. Our common & material life does not have big impacts, we have common understanding about the words but problem happens when we express about feelings & speacally 'LOVE'. We remain hungry throughout our life, we don't find the person who understand us.Everyone is not experienced of feelings love so it's very difficult to find a proper persson. & for the common understanding love means sex, because all of us has the capacity to meet at that level.It is the common & solid language we speak. At the most we can talk about the emotional love,because there are many people who are sensitive towards their emotions, & very rare people who understand the language of love of consciousness. so communication becomes difficult. It it is the reason for misunderstanding & have make big effort to undrstand each other.
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