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kholly

kholly

Philippines

I have a friend whose never been into any type of relationship. She never had a boyfriend but absolutely she’s not a lesbian. She admires guys.
My college professor told us that if your never had a boyfriend [if you’re a girl], then your life is kinda “abnormal”.
What can you say about this?

07:35 AM May 14 2007 |

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hahaxueshan

China

some  people like live lonely. a friend of mine is a girl. she is not a lesbian, but she dont like boy. i have not found she is abnormal. so don't worry.

06:27 AM May 15 2007 |

black"n"blue

Saudi Arabia

da prof is an ideot .. your freind is better off single .. tell her a good freind knows that ..

01:40 PM May 26 2007 |

antonia82

antonia82

China

MR.RIGHT just is the only

so

dont worry

one day she will meet him i believe

 

07:28 AM May 31 2007 |

Maggie_Guo

Maggie_Guo

China

I think it would make a girl feel very upset, if there's always not a guy loving her in her life. Maybe she'll think sadly" Am I too bad to make anyone love me?"

08:56 AM May 31 2007 |

thinhlam

thinhlam

Viet Nam

so what happen with a boy hasn't got a girlfriend. how about this??Cool

08:18 AM Mar 25 2008 |

munchkinxo

munchkinxo

Philippines

lol…sure it's not a laughing stuff but can't say that her life is abnormal. Not having a boyfriend even if she's let's say over 20 doesn't mean that she's living an abnormal life. And besides friendship is a kind of relationship too, isn't it?

And I agree with nadyaa. guess there might be something wrong with your prof…I'm sorry to say this but if we have a notion just like of your professor who considers the life of someone who's not into a relationship as 'abnormal' then surely this place might be crowded with people living an abnormal life.

The bottom line is whether you are in a relationship or not, if you know what you're doing and you take responsibility of your action then you're not abnormal.

 

 

09:37 AM Mar 25 2008 |

lathy

lathy

Viet Nam

wht? dont have boyfriend is ABNORMAL???I really dont think so,bcozz im single too and i dont think it’s strange,and having a bf is something important??I(m happy with my life now n i have good friends.Just simply,bcozz i still havent found a right boy to start a relationship though i have many friend who r boys.

10:31 AM Mar 25 2008 |

Casiol

Casiol

Malaysia

ahahah me too i don't quite believe in love…doesn't mean that i'm abnormal...

i don't care of having a boyfriend (i care of my wrinkles under my eyes lol)

but i do have boy friends…. i mean friends…boys but i don't wanna make any love relationship at this hour… yeah maybe because i'm a teenage girl so i just wanna live   life the fullest!!! (hhaha ROTFL

she's 20 and she will meet the one she love… just give her time huhu^^ 

 

10:48 AM Mar 25 2008 |

holly&honey

China

hi,kholly.

i won't say your friend is abnormal, but that she is different. there are millions of people around who haven't a stable relationship in their late twenties, even thirties. but at the same time,we have to admit that fewer people have NEVER been in a relationship. there may be a variety of reasons for that. i have a male friend, who is in his thirties and  really never has  a girlfriend. and he is definitely not a gay. i know that he takes relationship with a girl too seriously to start a romance easily. i guess he is too cautious about relationship. maybe your friend feel the same way. so she is not abnormal. she is just too cautious. as her friend, you should tell her to take it easy, try to get to know some guy, and try to get along with him. maybe he is just the one, who knows?

12:08 PM Mar 25 2008 |

airsea123

China

okay ,what everyone said are very well.in my opinion i fell she isnot a abnomal,maybe she is strange a little in character .in late 20 ,that why she still is single is someone's effect, i think.maybe her patents or friends.now days the people who have not boyfriend or girlfriend more and more  in late 30.

you are in happy or sad ,you can express your embition and thougt to friends or relationship .the people cannot live lonely whoever.

02:02 PM Mar 25 2008 |