Fall in love......

There is a term we call,’Fall in love’what does it mean….what does falls….from where we fall….& where do we fall…can’t there be term,’Rise in love’.....?can’t we rise in love….

It really is happy,upset….

Fall in love for me means, that its fall for me from heaven! I believe that every person have one true love in llife!And if you meet it – your a very lucky!!! And its the best thing that could happen!

Solomia,

You are perfectly right…..& to rise in love means to regain heaven through the partner….It really satisfy & make one feel fullfilled…

Hi, my friend,

 Are you married?  I seems you are experienced, Aha.

Hello,my friend.

Dear eaglewings,

there are different levels of satisfaction….when one gets satifactory sexual life ,then he stops looking for sex here & there…This we can call a physical level of heaven….if we go a little deep it becomes mental heaven …when you go beyond mind,for a while even you have taste of some thing existential…It makes silent..it makes you cool…

The real relation between two partners devllop when their egos drops during sex…they become existential souls…& we generally  feel that we have separate souls,that each one has his own soul,but it's not true…. when egos drops souls apears & oneness is felt….it's wonderful experience…it really fullfills…then you totlly stop searcing or imagining in future…we come in the present moment…our expectations drops…our hopes in future drops…  

Dear Eaglewings,

I feel that it is existential way to realise ego.We enjoy egolessness throgh sex,The enjoyment we feel of sex is not directly of it,It is of egolessness, when we understand  the whole process of it ,we become masters of it,it is upon us how do we take it in our life…

When we realise that what ego is…it falls automatically…since we are looking upon it from some distance…. we realise the difference.

I felt oneness first time during sex only,although the whole process of meditation is to go beyond mind without going through sex…The great Indian mysticc OSHO had given a lot of guidence upon this subject….to me he is the guiding light house…  

love is hurt, but nobody can get out of it_~~~~love is the most strange thing ~~

Dear Eaglewings,existentilly it hardly matters with whom you have sex ,& only your heart matters,where it says yess it is ok but we live in mind & critical world,all depends upon yuor own understanding,how much you can afford,what's your state of mind..Do you see yourself with your own eyes or tho opinions of others matters you..one needs doubtless understanding & totallity.Sincerety of your partner is helpful in bringing such understanding.

To chhose a partner you need awareness to judge your trust in the partner.He shouldn't be a man of sex alone,he should have respect to your attitude & cooprative at maximum…coopration is the most important factor…

2ndly there should be no fear & fear of disturbance,

3rdly,there shouldn't be hurry,means you should have enough time.these are all the external atmosphere,but internally you need to have deep breathing..when we get excited our breathing changes,we need to breathe deep & full,it is very important.

& lastly it may not happen in the first meeting with any of partner,we need to get familiar to each other,& if person of the same path meets then it may happen at any moment…

This is what I can suggest at this moment..If you have any other question you are welcome..Thanks

i am sad because i am falling in love now ,  ..... but if i raise in love i'll be happy