Sex before marriage...

Society nowadays accept the premarital sex. But what are cause and effect doing it before marriage?...

For my opinion,you will think your boy/girl is your right Mr/Mrs,so you want to get acknowledge with him/she deeperly,you want to marriage with him/she, so they have sex grantly,i don’t think sex before marriage is wrong,of course, i don’t preach it.
people have sex because they have love,sex is generated by love,on the contrary,it doesn’t make sense.

Friends, I feel that sex is a very important part of our life & evryone is free to have sex before or after marriage & everyone desires to live his personal life & some friends dares to live life according to their choice but most of us are infuenced by the religions too much & always feel guilty even to talk about sex …they live suppressed life & live miserable life…our existential life demands different & mental conditionings supply opposite so sex becomes tobu… I want go more deep upon this topic so I have to give a little change to the heading of the topic so as to widen the range… I wish to start the chain… SHOULD WE LEARN SEX…..

Modern times this issue very normal in Asia maybe i want to know how about other position,maybe somebody especially grils dislike, perhaps only have not meet her really love another in her life.

In china,have a adage"when the reins to thickness,your boby maybe out of your thinkness", do you agree? or you can make the conclusion after you observe the person in you side.

I concur with you …because i don`t want to find after marriage that my partner is not interested in sex! That can only spells troubled for the so-called married couple.

Hi.. Kanaobi and Al’ona, It’s fair if I talk to you that I had desire to did that. but, I have the way of life chosen, which is result my long process contemplation. I decided to did not that and only after marriage I would to do. I knew that it can be make “deformation” by my girlfriend, when we apart. and in my axiom, I get sin when I do. this is not tragedy but proud of me, I have a control, and I think sex is sacred, that I only do with my wife, not random partner. conservative? but it is true. it is me.

I don't accept do the sex before marriage

In my opinion sex doesn't depend on marriage. It should be the "right" person to the right time!

In adition it is necessary to know how sex is with the other person before marriage. So you won't be disappointed after!

Stay tuned!

no sex before marriage.. should we just know about sex before..

marriage is our protecting..

Freinds,here is the islamic point of view about sex before marriage

Islam is a religion that has maintained the special nature of the wedding and the wedding night, providing specific prescriptions for those events. Intimate relations between a man and a woman are only allowed within the marital bond, ensuring the uniqueness of that day and that relationship. It is important to recall that the union of man and woman is an innate occurrence and, because of that, it will come naturally. Allaah Says (what means): “And We created you in pairs.” [Quran 78: 8]  Islam has regulated this relationship on the basis of wisdom and nature. Through marriage, the natural instinct is provided for within reasonable and appropriate limits. This prevents the disorder and disharmony that we see in societies where these limits are not in place. The Islamic prescriptions are the most beneficial for the human beings, as well as the society in regard to sexual and marital relations. The individual is able to fulfill his or her desires in a healthy and wholesome manner, while protecting the society from iniquity at the same time.

So, as couples unite, they should reflect upon the fact that they are fulfilling an important duty in Islam and will be rewarded accordingly. There is also a spiritual component to this union along with the other elements. This means that they will be accountable to Allaah in all that they do in relation to this union. They are embarking on a new course in life, which will present new challenges and new joys. They will need to learn about each other – the other person’s needs, personality, temperament, and uniqueness. Patience will be needed since any match will not be perfect and there will most certainly be differences. This will be true regarding intimate matters as well, and this should be kept in mind as the couple begins their journey together on the first day of marriage. The couple should take time to get to know and understand one another and to discover the uniqueness and desires of their new life partner. This should be done in a gradual and sensitive manner. Each individual should be more concerned about the needs and wants of their partner, more so than his or her own self. This is a very delicate issue, especially for women who are generally more sensitive and emotional.

from islamweb.net