The New World
China
November 27, 2007
men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed.women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.
when a man is in love,he begins to care about another as much as himself.he experiences his partern's fulfillment as if it were his own.he can easily endure any hardship to make her happy,because her happiness makes him happy.his struggles become easier,he's energized with high purpose.most of men are not only hungry to give love,but starving for.the biggest problem is they do not know what they are missing.they rarely saw their father succeed in fulfilling their mothers through giving.when his relationships fail,he finds himself depressed and stuck in his cave.he stops caring,and then does not know why he is so depressed.at sunch times,he asks himself 'what is it all for ?' 'why should i even bother?' he does not know that he stops caring because he does not feel needed.he does not realize that by finding someone who needs him,he can shake off the depression and be motivated again.not bo be needed is a slow death for a man.
most of the men have little awareness how important it is to woman to feel supportd by someone who cares.women are happy when they believe their needs will be met.when a woman is upset,she needs to feel she is not alone.she needs to feel loved and cherished.empathy,understanding ,validation and compassion go a long way to assist her in becoming more receptive and appreciative of his support.men do not realize this because their martian instincts tell them it is best to be alone when they are upset.when she is upset,out of respect he will leave her alone,or if he stays he makes matters worse by trying to solve her problems.he does not instinctively realize that what she needs most is just someone to be there,someone to listen,someone to cares.
this passage i have red several times ,i think it's a good passage ,so i write it here and share with my friends of ebaby.
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Candy1017
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08:58 PM Dec 03 2007 |
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草涓涓
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November 21, 2007
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05:23 AM Nov 21 2007 |
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DS
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November 16, 2007
life is wonderful. although my english is not good to write more,i am very glad to be here and learn more from friends all over the world. i want to read more books especially about other countries , i like philosophy and something interested.
i am a college student but i have no more time to read or to learn more some otherthings that i like very much .because i will gradute from my college in several months. i must work hardly because all of us face the fact that the job is not easy to find,especially high salary and good working environment. my life will be full of work .
very want to make friends from all the world,want to know about you,and your culture ,and really want to learn more from you, your culture .
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09:11 AM Nov 18 2007 |
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Méll
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11:16 AM Nov 16 2007 |
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DS
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