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youngstar

youngstar

Nigeria

October 30, 2006

Character is what i am.... reputation is what people thinks of me. Before, i used to work on my reputation thinking i will find fulfillment there but no, outside people praise and respect me but inside i was sad, that was not the real me and I was always on gaurd so that people will not find the real me.

In the process of finding inner peace and confidence, i worked on my self (character) trying to be honest as possible and willing to learn from everybody. Everything changed, what i was trying to achieve with my reputation for years i was able to achieve that with my character in a few months( trust, happines,confidence,freinds...etc) though at first it was hard for them to believe in the real me.

I live in a society where there is too much pretence and you know the excuse they always give is thet "they want to belong". A friend ones said " i know he is liying but i love to hear those lies". To me if you can't love the real me then you don't love me period.My advice is whatever you do be honest and do the right thing and you will win even if you "lose".

 

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06:13 AM Nov 03 2006

youngstar

youngstar
Nigeria

Thank you mo.

02:44 AM Nov 03 2006

chamo41

chamo41
China

Though there are so many disappointed things, in any case, keep smile!~Laughing

02:42 AM Nov 03 2006

chamo41

chamo41
China

Dear youngstar.

I think you are right, follow your heart and don't cheat yourself, keep your own style.Support you!!Smile