give and obtain

this is my first message in ebaby .i just think this topic "give and obtain"

before obtain is giving,but doesn't meen if you give you will obtain.

perhaps i give a lot of to the others ,but obtain from them .don't care it .it is living.

we can be friends .

u don't have to think this way jennifer j…if you give only to receive, u will be in the bad way. u have to give just to be good. that's the real idea !

sorry ,there is a mistake for my talk ,i am just want to show an thought about life.

don't you heard that study hard and you will be super student.and another example ,you love a person,do a lot for him or her,but she or he does not love you .

in chinese there is a word 舍得，somebody thought it means that give then you will gain.here i want to show the exact mean ,gain after giving but giveing doesn't  means you will gain from this giving.

don't complain why i pay out so much ,but gain nothing.

__hope i expound my point of view without mistake this time._

I agree with you.Give doesn't mean obtain.Usually we will gain joyness from give.