nad1a
Greece
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Thank you very much guys.
now, that's the thing. you know all this, you know exactly what's going on. you've heard of it , it's all over the place, news etc. You're watching this movie and you go…my goodness, how can she be so stupid, why is she letting him in or opening the door. You realize that you may be acting silly in a way but still you're overwhelmed by assumptions like, what if he's really in need and i didnt help and next thing, i hear about his death on the news or something. And i know that's exactly what these people count on when they approach you that way.
The truth is that, it IS dangerous. It's not like I don't know that. Just that thousands of thoughts run through your mind at that time. I got scolded for this by friends and family. My mom ran over when i shared this with her over the phone and started: thank god you gave him money and he went away, or else who knows what he might be capable of etc etc
where i live, is a comparatively secure place to be, no matter it being a big city and all. folks don't lock their doors. i'd left my car unlocked, parked in the street in front of my building, for a whole night, for example, and it was still there in the morning lol. i had forgotten my pda in a taxi once and the guy contacted me through friends' phone numbers saved in it and brought it back to me without even expecting anything in return. i had ran out of gas and a guy stopped by and offered to go and get me some gas and refused that i pay for it,and again without expecting anything in return …so i guess i've just started trusting people more than what is necessary.
anyway, i 've learned my lesson, hopefully. but i wish there was a way of helping, so you won't have your conscience get at you later, without compromising your safety….
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