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It is very personal matter between a couple. Actually we don't have any right to comment.It depends upon the understanding the two people have. We have no right to comment, but we have the right to advice. The couples don't have the right to break each other heart. I don't think they got married for nothing! As long as they are married they should respect the marriage contract which is based on love and loyalty and other essential things. However, if they think their marriage is over and there is no hope in it! Then everyone should carry on his life. Because there is no meaning for their marriage if they already decided to break it up! It is true breaking up is not easy thing but it is much better than cheating. Our religion & culuture has very big shaddow upon our marriage. Yes, of course our religion has a very big shadow upon our marriage. It is the right thing to do which is following the religion, since the religion stands on a realistic basic. However, the cultures are also play a part in the marriage but not all the cultures are in the right track! There are lots of cultures which follow blind traditions! This is wrong for sure because tradition is such as a habit!! When the habit is bad we need to change it to be a good one. The same for traditions, if the tradition is wrong we need to change it to be on the right track. We are not practical & transparent enough.
In this life there are always a double faced people. You cannot know how transparent they are! But you can learn it from treating, talking and mixing with people around you. This will help you at least to understand the other person’s personality. Most of the times all of us hides our original feelings & show our artificial face to public.We feel differnent & live either double life or supress our feelings.
True. Most of people are afraid of telling how they think or even believe because they are afraid to lose anyone around them! Of course this is wrong thing since it is so erroneous to be artificial and to live in a doubled life. This will effect on the person himself and will make him live as an obsessed person. Not to mention how mentally ill he will be. but we don't have courage to accept it. First, accept what? Second, why? but we don't care so much & wear a mask & hide our original face. is very vast & every couple has his own meaning. What is the specific meaning for this sentence! For me 'love' gives freedom & anybody who hinders our freedom couldn't be called lover may it our spouse , Yes, love gives freedom but remember! It doesn’t give amoral.
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