Humans have to control them in sex.. Islam banned having sex before marrige to make ppl more tidy in life.. May partners will have a baby… then i dont believe that baby will have a nice life in all of her/his future.. It is hard that not to have a family life.. It is too hard for a child.. Only animals have sex before thinking.. I am a human.. and there must be a diffirence between me and an animal. I want to be a nice wife,, and a good mother, who care her children's life.. n future… Sure,, it is so easy to have sex with someone u love.. But the difficult and the diffirent and the important and the valuable one is > Being Patience until marry! Also my nation is sooo closed about something like it,, like marrige, and respectfull, and the realtionship between men n women.. some ppl think it is boring.. But no! i am proud of my culture .. In our culture,, we attach a red thing to our back (the bridges) 
:D like ittt :))) It means >> Being Virgin for us.. In my culture,, being virgin is the most important thing in a girl's life.. that's a lot shame to have sex before marriage.. Hope,, Allah will never let me n anyone to do such a terrible thing! inshallah..
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