@aliyatul_hikmah: Thank you so much for taking time to reply this question of mine in a way that is so helpful to me. I really do appreciate your long answer as I am really serious about learning how to improve my personal relationships. Your reply not only answered my original question but also give me other important insight that I need in real life. I always have this problem of easily influenced by all sort of friends: which include ordinary friend and close friend that you mentioned. Now only I understand, I only needed to be influenced by my close friends, and therefore no need to concern too much about what other people(which are ordinary people) think. That way, I can become more firm about my own value system :) I am so relief,,, thank you so much Aliyatul I will carefully chose those who shares similar motives and values with me as my close friends (whoever has a kind heart and willing to contribute to society/world) But, then again, I am still confused. Should we also be understanding to those who do not share same values as us? If we already do not agree with their values, how can we be understanding to them and their behaviours?
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