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Researching the "Rape Culture" of America!

osesame

osesame

Egypt

BY Dr. Christina Hoff Sommers
An Investigation of Feminist Claims about Rape
As a crime against the person, rape is uniquely horrible in its long-term effects. The anguish it brings is often followed by an abiding sense of fear and shame. Discussions of the data on rape inevitably seem callous. How can one quantify the sense of deep violation behind the statistics? Terms like incidence and prevalence are statistical jargon; once we use them, we necessarily abstract ourselves from the misery. Yet, it remains clear that to arrive at intelligent policies and strategies to decrease the occurrence of rape, we have no alternative but to gather and analyze data, and to do so does not make us callous. Truth is no enemy to compassion, and falsehood is no friend.
http://www.leaderu.com/real/ri9502/sommers.html
GREETINGS FOR SUCH VICE CITY!
RETURN TO ALLAH AND STOP SUCH BAD CULTURE!

03:39 PM Mar 13 2010 |

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dabbid

dabbid

Spain

06:01 PM Mar 14 2010 |

dabbid

dabbid

Spain

the problem is not the kind of clothes that women wear

the problem is what women and men think about sexual freedom. 

06:12 PM Mar 14 2010 |

Shayma

Tunisia

Reasons:

  • Late night party cultures, discos, dating clubs, fashion shows and beauty contests have increased in numbers in the past 10 years.
  • This decade has witnessed a huge increase in pornography materials both in CDs and on Internet. 
  • The entertainment industry and media which have access nearly to every house, present bold scenes and nudity as fashion and symbol of higher lifestyle.
  • The youths are heavily getting addicted to drugs and other intoxicant stuffs.

 Solutions:

To get the society free from crimes, the spate of pornographic materials must be strictly banned. The media, TV channels and cinema which present and publish vulgar materials must be censored. womenfolk have to be careful to safeguard their modesty and self-respect. youths and new generations need to be given more and more morals teachings and social values.

08:05 PM Mar 14 2010 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

I think Shayma, give a logic study!
hope all read it well!
and i think who wear hijab of course not who wear bikini, if u ask any man which will u look at, the answer will be one answer!!!
or u see another answer???
btw, a russian friend told me once, she went out for a public garden with her sister who was wearing sexy clothes, she said all the men in the garden, their eyes get out to look at her sister
?
any one can tell me why?
r all those men sick
?

09:35 AM Mar 15 2010 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

Kobiet
“As somebody told before MEN are EYES.”
i’m who said that!...and as u said men will look at the woman who is more sexy, and that matter can’t be done without tight and semi naked clothes, and i didn’t say every woman who wear that would be raped, coz the many conditions enter that equation, and u don’t what is going in the chest of those men by raising the spirit of lust inside them with such clothes, and who prevent him, his fear of socitey and police….as i remember a saying for an ex president of america: when lust came reason go away! or man lost his mind when lust came…something like that! this is the nature of man…but if there is no fear of such things, like a man who has authority, i think we heared a lot about men in such positions in a so-called civlized states like israel rape their employee!!!
then the fear of God exist only to prevent man from comitting a such thing, beside woman shouldn’t raise the lust inside man by showing their assets, right ??
thanks

12:05 PM Mar 15 2010 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

NU,
why u get angry of the real truth!...that u really be away of the right way that God had drawn it for us all!
and that is the end of deviating from His way!
the matter didn’t stop at ur countries, but exceed to our countries by exporting ur culture day and night to the rest of the world…all crimes that committed in islamic countries r as a result of such culture which encourage of violence and sex!...
and all know that~!
may Allah guide us all to the right way!

05:53 AM Mar 16 2010 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

Kobiet, i’m not who said that ” culture” if u read the topic from the source that i brought it from , u will find that american themselfs who said that!
ok, it shouldn’t be a”culture” but the matter come from the recent situation of media intersted in spreading sex with all aspects of it like pornography in every thing in modern life and women apply it which encourage sexual arousal for men ( either sick or not), and as i said before ” men r eyes”...so why i excite him then ask him to control urself plz!
why i prevent the reasons for that, to decrease the no. of cases….i didn’t say it would finished utterly but decrease . the number mentioned is horrible 90000.
those words for all ppl not america alone! even here!
btw, do u know Facts and Statistics About Infidelity in america!
Given the secretive nature of infidelity, exact figures about cheating and extra-marital affairs are nearly impossible to establish. But, listed below are some of the most well-supported facts about cheating. All cited sources can be found on our reference page.
It is estimated that roughly 30 to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage (see, Buss and Shackelford for review of this research). And these numbers are probably on the conservative side, when you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce (people are more likely to stray as relationships fall apart; also see, who is likely to cheat).
Research consistently shows that 2 to 3% of all children are the product of infidelity (see, Anderson). And most of these children are unknowingly raised by men who are not their biological fathers. DNA testing is finally making it easy for people to check the paternity of their children (see, paternity issues).
Infidelity is becoming more common among people under 30. Many experts believe this increase in cheating is due to greater opportunity (time spent away from a spouse) and young people developing the habit of having multiple sexual partners before they get married (see, young and restless – Wall Street Journal).
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/quizzes/public/infidelity_statistics.html

01:20 PM Mar 16 2010 |

Shayma

Tunisia

kobiet.ka

yes, you'r right but 'whore' and 'bitch' are decent words compared to hip hop or RAP music lyrics that entertainment moguls encourage. they don't care of anything but to make media moguls rich!

01:48 PM Mar 16 2010 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

LOOK TO THEIR VALUES:-
‘Life is Short, Have an Affair,’ Says Ashley Madison Agency
Pimps are not what they used to be. In the past, they were the slimy guys in the alley who would seek to procure paying customers for the bodies of the women they victimized. Nowadays they are online services
advocating secondary and even tertiary relationships,
swinging, and affair guarantees – for a price.
The Ashley Madison agency pimps married folks looking for a quick romp in the hay. Hailing itself the “world’s #1 married dating service specifically for attached men and women who are looking to have an extra-marital affair,” the service makes no bones about its mission.
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1206394/life_is_short_have_an_affair_says_ashley.html
WHAT CAN WE TALK MORE AFTER THAT???????!!!!!!!!!

02:42 PM Mar 16 2010 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

WHAT I MEAN THAT MEDIA IS EXCITING THE LUST CULTURE INSIDE THE SOCIETY, MAKING THEM THINK OF THEIR GENITALS REGARDLESS HOW TO ACHIEVE IT, BY RAPE OR BY FORNICATION, ...ETC.

06:29 AM Mar 17 2010 |