Why me? Why always me...?

Why do things always happen to me? Why do I always end up in tears? Why am I always making the wrong choices? Why do I get hurt always?

We all ask these questions from ourselves almost half our life time. the amazing part is most of us even knowing the answers, somehow end up asking the same questions over and over again. If I am asked the same questions by someone, I would say there are two basic reasons:

·         The choices we make

·         The feelings we allow to prevail

It is a common and well known saying that “we are subjects of our consequences”; well I do agree but with all due respect not completely. Consequences are actually a product of our choices and decisions, the choice I would make while taking a step would definitely have some consequences; are they good, or do they turn out to be bad, that actually depends on my decision, my choice. What did I chose? Did I choose correctly or did I leave some loopholes? You have to be very specific while making choices, don’t shy away from the paper pencil exercise; write things down. This exercise not only allows us to define various alternatives but also renders a forecasting effect suggesting us what the outcomes would be.

Remember, the elements of the universe don’t  harm us, it’s the expectations we attach with the elements which do.