Dear, My message to share with you that we shouldn’t always feel sorry that a person or a young person passed away and that he/she missed life, making family, or any other Duniya activities, etc. but we should think how we contributed to make that person be ready to be in Qabar and be ready for judgment day by advising each other while in Duniya before it is too late either by word or action and guiding to all possible ways to make us all gain more good deeds (hasanat) and loss sins (sai’at) to be winners- Inshallah all of us in Jana – Ameen,,, Just imagine to be in his/her shoe- how would you face it (Qabar and judgment day) be ready, be prepared, when the day comes nothing can stop death and no one will stand beside anyone in Qabar and judgment day- doesn’t matter in Duniya if a person having lot of money, children, position, authority, beauty, royal tribe, palace, gardens, etc. all will not help – as everyone by him/herself and only the good deeds will be there to support as well the Rasol Mohammad sala Allah alyeh wasalm as who remember him in Duniya by following his suna as well he will remember him in Akhira- Inshalla we will get his Shafa3a- Ameen,,, So my advise to you and to all Muslim ladies that (as in the below points) as they are the same things which I am telling to my sisters, Aunties, cousins (girls)- believe me it is a burden on my chest and painful to see resistance as facts are clear but people ignoring them as mission to make them be good Muslims and be better than they can be: 1- As a Muslim women the dress should not show the body cuts. 2- Perfume on body/cloth shouldn’t be strong and noticeable by men. 3- On the face- lot of make-up with colors shouldn’t be there. 4- Eye brows shouldn’t be removed- women who do that are cursed 5- 5 prayers should be on time – no delay till later time 6- At least reading some Quran per day 7- Trying to take an extra mile- extra suna prayers a day, fasting a number of days a month 8- Saying no to music (quran of shaytan) – listening to useful things and say Adhkar, Istighfar, Salawat Lil Nabi which will increase Eman and help in Qabar and on judgment day 9- Having a regular amount of money a month for Sadaqat 10- Finding poor families and provide them cash, gifts, on Eid/Ramadhan 11- Encouraging family gatherings to read Quran and give advise lectures or leaflets, etc. 12- Be responsible by advising other ladies on all the above as it is Jihad without a sword to make people be good Muslims Note: these points will not only benefit a Muslim in Akhira, but as well in Duniya to be blessed, be protected from evil acts, make a person patient and have good judgment in life challenges, gain respect of people and all doors will be open. That’s all for now- hopefully message was clear and I feel much better now as I delivered the message J This was one of email I get may be can help
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