Friends, It is unfrtunate that we do not have clear idea of terms we use. We use the word 'Sex' for intercourse & love making. Intercourse is an existential phenomina & all animals have it & it is pure mechanical.No animal go to any school to learn the art 'sex'.It happens by itself as existence demands. The same phenomina happens in human too. but humanness of human is that that it had not stopped just at that point & has grown up to make 'love', So, To be at the level of animals i.e. 'machanical sex' is bad for human. But it is just idealogical. Because most of us don't understand the idea of 'grown-up consciousness' & we live at the level of animals while keeping the idea of 'love' in memory just but not knowing the 'love' practcally. We have the knowldge of word 'Love' but do not have the experience of it. So, to live at the level f animalness is bad,hence sex is bad(before or even after the marriage) but not 'love making'.
|