ANGER!!!

What about anger? When you’re angry at smth or smb, how do you manage it?

May be you crash anything around or beat your pillow or shout or crying or WHAT?

As for me when I feel that I start boiling I try to calm down turning my attention to somewhat else or just going out and walking.

we need to control our self when we are angry. There are many ways. When you are angry try to do not talk. Another way is that if you are standing you should sit. belive me that will help you.

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ed is faith

Thank you :)

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But angry is difficult  ................. when  from  thing  maybe  i try  to be   w away  from it   .............................. when from someone  i talk   to  him  her

............................. and  sometimes  not talk  to her  him  analays  his  her  phsicolgy

I feel I have good nerves to control my anger but that never mean I don’t get that fellow sometimes into my companionship, but in companionship too it serves me in a good way. For anger is a great energy, only we have to devise a creative way to divert that energy into someting creative. Like when I am angry I shift that energy into my workout.

One of my friend love to practice boxing when he gets angry. And after few minutes practice he laughs like never … ;)

for u Eleniya

Thank you, Ryo.

Children faces are so nice and cute and make me smile :)

You’re right, Semiha. I also share my emotions with my close friend and such a talking always helps.

Yes, Saladeen. I think it’s a good way to turn anger energy into somewhat creative. If we only could do it every time we start boiling inside.. immediately to change our activities under the influence of such a strong emotion :)

When one gets angry it is common to lash out hot words. Sometimes these hot words can lead to violence resulting in murder.Whatever the theorists says about anger, from my own reflection and understanding, anger is caused by one’s lack of understanding and love. If you have the capacity to understand others and love others, you won’t get angry.Lack of understanding means inability to see other people’s point of view. If you can see why people behave or do things the way they do, you will be more tolerant and able to control your anger.If that is true, there could be no dispute unless one or both parties were mentally unsound. There can never be anyone absolutely right. What is right for us may not be right for others and this where we need to find a common ground to resolve the issue at hand.The problem with finding a solution for a dispute is often because one or both parties involved is not willing to accept what can be beneficial for both sides. In deeper viewpoint, this is actually vanity in action.It is this vanity people carry in them that causes the anger. If you have love, will you get angry? So it is because one lacks the ability to love others that causes anger and in truth, to love others means to accept others for what and who they are.If each one of us learns to put ourselves in the offending person’s shoe, we can be more understanding. The problem is we are too quick to react instead of listening and thinking about what is being said to us.Your ability to control your anger shows your level maturity. The less mature you are, the more likely you are to resort to verbal excretions out of anger. What good can anger bring you? Nothing!Some people say it is alright to get angry. Most people use anger as a form of self defense. The truth is self defense has nothing to do with anger. If you are in a position where your life is threatened, by all means defend it but do it without anger.Anger is the result of lack of self control. When you loose self control, it means you have lost your rationality. You may have noticed how irrational people behave. They are often the cause of problems for other people.t may not possible for you to live life without ever getting angry, but you can do your best to control yourself and live without it as much as possible. Don’t get angry.

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Thanks for your answer. It is a wise one :)

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