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MESS

MESS

Turkey

May 9, 2012

"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness."

(Quoted from "LOVE and DEATH")

MESSY, as always! EmbarassedLaughing

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11:24 PM May 10 2012

Saenger D

Saenger D
Germany

hehhheh

I can t agree with you. Sure, my own experiences for love are more painful than joyful, but,........., at the moment, I m soo happy., Hope, it will hold for long time

so wanna share my happiness with you and write in your book

NEVER EVER GIVE UP: ONE DAY ALL WISHES COMES TRUE

WITH LOVE

jo


10:22 AM May 10 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Ola, absolutely, I coul not agree with you more. You put it very beautifully and clearly. :)

Snoopy, to err is human, so without my past actions and mistakes, I would not be myself today. I would not have this well-set personality of mine. I am perfectionist so whatever responsibility I take on, I try my hardest to handle it as perfectly as possible. No one can ever suggest the opposite, but I am not flawless. Being truly perfect in every aspect of life would make me quite an ordinary person. Who else would criticize me either positively or negatively if I was born as a flawless person? :)

As for romantic relationships, there is no couple that completes each other utterly perfectly in every ways. Having opposite ideas, not always, adds zest and joy to the relationship. I get some doubts, too, when a person that I meet newly displays extremely good manners, because it ends in frustration consequently, so it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. 

09:48 AM May 10 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

" come clean or don't come at all"

Problems start when you realize that your soulmate was in the end just like anyone else , not perfect. Flaws only make qualities more appreciable. At least, that how I see it.

 I get worried when a girl seems to good to be true,

09:04 AM May 10 2012

ola33

ola33
Japan

Mess,  agree when you're in love, especially the first experiences, you don't see imperfection even if you see them, the guy/girl is just what you need. But it's unitl the first "blows" the "perfect" lover will inflict on you. And still, you'll be a little bit blind. So, the time, experience will put everything in its place and then after that fiasco, you'll be seeking other qualities rather than appearance... Though, I agree, we're not robots... Anyway, love is a very good feeling... it energizes us.

07:33 AM May 10 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Snoopy, it is OKAY. It happened to me a few times, as well. Don't worry. Smile

06:11 AM May 10 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

Mess

It was supposed to be a smiley face plus a two cleverly crafted sentences. But unfortunately , they got deleted, it was nothing mean.

:)

05:48 AM May 10 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Saladeen, I like the meaningful lyrics. Thanks alot. My hats off to you! Wink

Snoopy, nice smile. A smile is the light in the window of your face that tells others you are at home! Tongue out Knock knock. There is someone at the door. Laughing

05:33 AM May 10 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

Smile

04:27 AM May 10 2012

Saladeen

Saladeen
Pakistan

Love is surrender, and anything else can be anything but love. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAthJEAOCmI

03:12 AM May 10 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Ola, I agree with you. What makes me think is that when one is in love, he/she is truly blinded by the magical power of love. He/she does not see the faults of the other person. He/she is the one and only for you, and the perfect man or woman of your life. His/her flows seem quite normal to you, even if you seek for perfection (no one is perfect!). It's really weird when you think of it this way, right? 

04:33 PM May 09 2012

ola33

ola33
Japan

Mess, I think love can be different. It's worth of distinguishing when people are just friends, good friends (which is great) when they use each other ( every one is getting what he/she needs, when the supply is finished, the relationships finished too. Pretty mean thing but it's life, it happens. What is left after that -- numerous complaints), love for pleasure and LOVE what is called a reall pure love when a person loves another one for his personality, for his good qualities, for what kind of person he/she is. That when love shines. If inner structure of the person attracts then I think,  LOVE is forever. Good always attract...Smile

04:13 PM May 09 2012

dancin4108

dancin4108
United States

Hmmmmmmmm. Cool

02:05 PM May 09 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Snoopy, I am sleepy right now, so I am going to bed. You read it backwards, but don't be lost amidst this MESS. Just saying it. Laughing

01:22 PM May 09 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

Right now.. I'm trying to read your "messy equation" backwards Cool

12:14 PM May 09 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Snoopy, let's suppose so. The number was just an example. You and I both know what I meant. So you are being messy right now. Laughing

11:16 AM May 09 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

Messi

  I don't know  where you got this figure from (100). The last I checked I had only 18, two more than a worm

;)

08:01 AM May 09 2012

MESS

MESS
Turkey

Snoopy, 17 is not much compared to 100, so you have to be grateful to me for not making you lose more of your brain cells. Besides, I believe you have lots of them already as you are smart! Wink

07:28 AM May 09 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

MESS , you owe me some brain cells,  I popped 17 of them , trying to solve this Rubik Cube .Very cleverly put

stop messing with our minds.

Tongue out