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Love After Divorce

Love After Divorce

Date: Jan 25 2008

Themes: Romance

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These days you haven’t lived unless you’ve been married four or five times. Up until a few decades ago, marriage was a very serious thing that lived up to the line “until death do you part” that is said in the ceremony.

But how does marriage change the second and third time around? How can you be sure you’ve found true love when you thought you had it before? Marni has a friend who is recently divorced and just started looking for that special someone...again. Listen to her talk with Devan about it.

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Marni

Marni

Devan

Devan

Marni:  So I have this friend who just recently got divorced, actually, and she is trying to date again and she’s feeling a little weird about it, so we were talking about if it’s possible to find love after marriage and do you view things differently…I don’t know…

Devan:  I think it’s got to be possible. I don’t think either of my parents…I mean, neither of them found love after they got divorced, but it’s gotta be possible. People do fall in love again, right?

Marni:  It’s just…yeah…I think once you get married it’s this big…obviously it should be embraced as this big deal and if it doesn’t work out, are you able to find love again?

Devan:  Do you think that people are afraid to fall in love again?

Marni:  Probably. I think there’s a…Yeah, maybe if you’ve gotten hurt. Depending on the situation…

Devan:  Just afraid you’re going to get your heart broken?

Marni:  Right! Right. I mean, who wants to go through that again? Getting your heart broken is terrible. But I don’t know, love after marriage…Once you get married you just hope that’s gonna be it, right?

Devan:  Yeah, but it seems like divorce is as common as marriage nowadays.

Marni:  It’s true. So really, it has to be right?

 

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Discussion

Marni’s friend recently got divorced and is worried that it isn’t possible to find love after marriage.

Devan says that even though neither of her parents found love again after they got divorced, she thinks it has to be possible. But Marni points out that it can be difficult to let yourself fall in love for a second time, especially if you got hurt the first time.

Devan says that divorce is as common as marriage these days, which can’t be true because certainly some marriages work out. But her point is that even though the increasing number of divorces can seem like a sad thing, it also means that there’s hope to find love again because there are so many other people looking for it too.

How many times have you been married? How about your parents? Do you think it’s ever too late for someone to find love?

 

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matteo-italy-85

Italy

I HAVE FOUND MY TRUE LOVE… I’M VERY LUCKY!

09:32 AM Jan 27 2008 |

A JIMMY

A JIMMY

China

In China, decades ago,we thought divorce was very bad and made efforts to avoid it. However,  people especil the youngsters often have an open view of it. And we often think if the couple don't think each other is the true love, divorce is often the best choice.

09:10 AM Jan 27 2008 |

yueyuezhu

yueyuezhu

China

i do think so

06:25 AM Jan 27 2008 |

baldy

baldy

Colombia

im 32 and im single, i believe in marriage if there is real love, if not, that will be bound to a divorce.

02:32 AM Jan 27 2008 |

chloewang

chloewang

China

yeah,I agree with you very much,

  If you will be married with the man,you must think a long time for yourself, the large decision will influence all your life.

01:11 AM Jan 27 2008 |

jeffreyli9

China

i think it is possible to find love after marriage(s). What if the person you divorced is not your true love? Divorce means that you leave your misery behind and you are heading to bright future. In that case, finding love after divorce is quite a rational result.

10:19 PM Jan 26 2008 |

maryam_b9999

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

i think if some one went out of ur life god choise some one beter

07:40 PM Jan 26 2008 |

norseen86

norseen86

Egypt

this is fact

07:06 PM Jan 26 2008 |

ponka

ponka

Ukraine

I think that it's never too late to find true love. Our fate will never go past. And i think it's better to divorse than to live without love.

 

04:34 PM Jan 26 2008 |

mariviam

Colombia

love afer divorce is possible but please don't take it too serious, only Tongue outenyoy it

 

 

 

04:19 PM Jan 26 2008 |

kelly ariel

Singapore

cool ,l love it !

03:48 PM Jan 26 2008 |

sela baby

sela baby

China

Obviously,love is not easy…....That is very complex thing…If you love one…Please cherish him or her…If you fall in love …....After divorce it's very pain…..Your heart break up…...The second is very difficult…...Because you probably haven't that kind of the spirit…...

03:09 PM Jan 26 2008 |

longmeiling0829

China

I think they have loved each other at once,that's enough.

02:51 PM Jan 26 2008 |

gopi_learning

India

Once married, we should keep the promise what we said in the time of marriage.

What ever the problem comes, we try to compromise from both side. we never ever give up the promise. who ever it may be and what ever the kind of person, we must adjust the life. That will bring endless happy….. 

02:49 PM Jan 26 2008 |

hj914

hj914

China

marriage is a duty,i think.everyone has right to choose the special one in the meantime  has the responsibility to the marriage.so select the true love is important!

02:48 PM Jan 26 2008 |

mahmoudjeexaa

Somalia

LOVE After Divorce!!! Huh Scareful no way I don’t believe it. The marriage is sweat and Happiness So Divorce is bad thing the people who falling their love they should think well and shake hands to avoid the Divorce it’s is scare LoL

02:02 PM Jan 26 2008 |

Jessica.Loy

Mali

love's …everyway everytime but the true love not easy to meet .. u don't know when will came to u . sometime it's worth sometime it's non….appreciate when the real true love it come…live in this world u got your choice

02:01 PM Jan 26 2008 |

Jessica.Loy

Mali

love’s everyway.everytime had to give and forgive u don’t know will be came.. when the true love come’s to u appreciate the present for the god giving nobody would stop this is your choice….

01:52 PM Jan 26 2008 |

一生有你4015

一生有你4015

China

marriage is very important in a life. i hope everyone would found themself true love.

12:44 PM Jan 26 2008 |

arminimani

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

i think lova and marriage are different because after marriage all your loves will go in smoke.

12:44 PM Jan 26 2008 |

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