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再婚家庭

Learn the Second Conditional

Date: Sep 21 2011

Themes: Family

Grammar: Second Conditional

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It’s hard enough to get along with your own family at times. Imagine having a stepfamily. When a parent remarries after a divorce, it can be complicated, especially if the new stepmother or stepfather has kids, too.

The idea of an evil stepmother or mean stepsiblings is so common, a lot of movies have been made about it. Just think of the famous Disney cartoon Cinderella, in which an evil stepmother makes her stepdaughter work as a servant in her house! But when you are able to bond with a stepparent or stepsiblings, having a whole new family can be a lot of fun.

Amy has a stepmother and three stepsiblings. Hear her tell Devan about what it’s like to have a step family.

有时候,与自己的家人和睦相处都会非常困难,更别提身处一个再婚家庭了。父母离异后再婚,情况会变得很复杂,特别是新的继母或继父也有孩子时。
邪恶的继母或卑鄙的继兄弟姐妹,这种观念是如此深入人心,与此有关的电影更是数不胜数。只需想想著名的迪斯尼卡通片《灰姑娘》,里面那位邪恶的继母居然让她的继女在家中像佣人一样工作!但是,当你可以与继父母或是继兄弟姐妹们和睦相处时,拥有一个全新的家庭也会充满乐趣。
艾米有位继母还有三个继兄弟姐妹。听听她如何对徳凡讲述再婚家庭的情况。

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Amy

Amy

Devan

Devan

Amy:  Do you have any stepsiblings, Devan?

Devan:  I don’t. Do you?

Amy:  Yeah, my dad remarried. You know, my parents got divorced and then my dad remarried a few years ago, and so I ended up having this whole other family that I had never had before. And it’s been kinda weird. I have two brothers and a sister now. It’s been interesting kind of trying to integrate the families. But we’re gonna try and spend a couple weeks together, actually, and do a big family vacation.

Devan:  So how about you and your stepmother, do you guys get along?

Amy:  Yeah, she’s definitely not like an evil stepmother or anything. But I still kinda haven’t gotten used to seeing her with my dad. You know, I guess I still kind of think of my mom as being the woman in his life. So it’s a little weird.

Devan:  Yeah. Is that threatening to your own mom? Is she afraid that she’s gonna be replaced by your stepmother or anything like that?

Amy:  Maybe if I were younger, she would worry about that. But because I was already an adult when my dad remarried, it’s not really a problem.

Devan:  Yeah, I can definitely see how that would be hard to get used to, having a whole brand new family come in. But it’s good to hear that you’re making the effort to make it work.

Amy:  Do you think you could ever handle being a stepmother to somebody else’s kids?

Devan:  No way. No. Absolutely not.

 

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Amy’s parents divorced and her father remarried. Now she has a stepmother and three stepsiblings.

Although Amy gets along fine with her stepmother and stepsiblings, she says it is strange having these new family members. It is especially weird for her to see her father with a new wife. But she wants to bond with her stepfamily, so she is going to take a vacation with them.

Amy asks Devan if she could handle being stepmother to someone else’s children. Devan thinks there is no way she could do that.

Do you have a stepparent or stepsiblings? Do you think it would be difficult to have a stepfamily? How would you bond with your new family?

 

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caiyan503@126.com

China

Well, like the article mentioned at the begaining. Even it`s ur own family, sometimes it`s hard to get along with, not mention stepfamilies.


I reject stepfamily, for the adult, it may be ok, but for kids, it may be a dizaster, so think twice before u make decision to marry, and be good to him once u get married with him.


 


 

09:50 AM Sep 21 2011 |

Bruce_zhou

China

I don’t like stepfamiles and i have not stepparent,i think it’s more fortunately for me ,why i think about like that,i have a friend he told me he was very lonely and sadly in his childhood sience his stepmother remarried with his father,you know ,his stepmother has got a baby after married 2 years,so his stepmother didnot love him any more,sometime even maltreat him,his fater didn’t cover him cuase his stepmother mighty,so my friend very sad at that time in his childhood,maybe like someone told was right,if remarried when your kid grow up becoming a adult,just little effection with your kid,if you get stepfamilies when kid very young,it’s not good for kid’s life and eduacation,some negative effection even through all the life,so if someone want to divorce should be think about your kids first.

09:08 AM Sep 21 2011 |

gita_tho

gita_tho

Viet Nam

I agree with Saif’s thinkings .It is not esasy to get along with a stepfamily or siblings in the same roof


Sometimes, that is how to call their names because we use to call their names friendly before.and now it is complicated to call anthers by the same names .Example: I call my  father by” daddy” now I can’t change to call stepfather by that name


for parents, try avoid devoicing, think about the childen’s feelings when they must live far their familly, parents.. .they need both of them

08:35 AM Sep 21 2011 |

will_last30

Philippines

Step families or otherwise, the important thing to consider is to keep one’s demeanor over one’s volatile and, sometimes, destructive emotions.

08:32 AM Sep 21 2011 |

gaoussina

Mali

 Ive got a stepmother and stepsiblings but i don’t think there is something wrong in it and i get along with all of them and like spend times with my sisters.

08:11 AM Sep 21 2011 |

devdim

India

i have not stepparent.i don’t know it but i will think about stepfamily.In this case very complicated and successful in life.More than complicated it.iI don’t like step family


 

07:49 AM Sep 21 2011 |

MUHAMMAD92

MUHAMMAD92

Saudi Arabia

i have not stepparent,difficult to have a steofamiliy.

05:06 AM Sep 21 2011 |

rigil_kent09

Philippines

For me, its difficult to have a stepfamily. Ofcourse you dont want to have a broken family, what more if you are going to have a stepfamily.

04:40 AM Sep 21 2011 |

nurily

Malaysia

i having stepfather when im were 2 years,he is a good father and nice to me what ever i did and doing he always giving sopporting,thank you

04:33 AM Sep 21 2011 |

Whitney S

Whitney S

Colombia

I have a step father who lives with my mom,my bro and me. I also have a step mother, who lives with my dad and my little brother.


I like my step father. I don’t like my step mother.


Having a step family can be nice as long as your original mother/father, works hards to make you get along with your step family and you base your relationship at home with love and respect.


03:52 AM Sep 21 2011 |

Nga Nguyen

Nga Nguyen

Viet Nam

I don’t like stepfamily. It’s almost complecatedYell!

01:35 AM Sep 21 2011 |

 julito

julito

Argentina

I  think that extended families in many cases  are   sort of difficult to handle  to childrens that are already emotionally hurt by having to gone  thorough their parent´s split up. it requires a lot of understanding from both parts to move forward  and bond  as in the case of Amy.

04:42 PM Sep 20 2011 |

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