Intro
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2. Read and Prepare - Read the introduction and prepare to hear the audio.
Have you ever felt so stressed out that your stomach starts to hurt? Or maybe stress affects your sleeping. Or gives you a headache. Or makes you start to act meanly to the people you love. When you get that stressed out, it’s definitely time to take it down a notch.
A “notch” is a hole or a cut in the surface of a material. For example, the holes on your belt are called notches. You can think of taking it down a notch as loosening your belt a little bit. When you take it down a notch, you’re loosening your whole self, and letting yourself truly relax.
Lily was under a lot of stress at the office before she ran away. Find out whether she learned to take it down a notch in this English lesson.
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Dialog
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2. Study - Read the dialog again to see how the vocab words are used.
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Lily: Rolling Hill Farms has been so great for me. I feel so relaxed.
Therapist: Have you been going to meditation class?
Lily: Yeah. I go every morning after yoga. It’s really great for me to try and forget about all the stuff that’s been bothering me lately.
Therapist: Do you want to talk about it?
Lily: Things were going really intensely at work. I wanted to make sure that everyone knew that I could handle all the things and to make sure that everyone liked me, but I went too far. I realized I need to take it down a notch.
Therapist: Say more.
Lily: I don’t need to try so hard. People are going to like me or not, and I just have to learn to live with that.
Therapist: But how are you going to take it down a notch? What strategies have you learned to really deal with your stress?
Lily: Well, breathing is super important. I just need to learn to slow down and take a breath. Also, yoga has been awesome. I’m thinking about taking a class during my lunch break.
Therapist: Good. What else?
Lily: Writing in my journal has been really important to me. I feel like I can really organize my thoughts when I write them down.
Therapist: Good work, Lily. But I wonder: you’re writing down your thoughts in your journal, but what if you communicated some of those thoughts to your former office-mates and let them know how you’re feeling?
Lily: Really? I kind of assumed that I couldn’t go back.
Therapist: You know, sometimes you have to give people a little more credit. I bet when they find out about the good work you’ve been doing, they’ll understand.
Lily: OK. I do like that idea. In fact, I think I want to write to everyone, and just tell them that things are going so much better, and that they should just let me come back.
Therapist: Good, Lily. Good work. Why don’t you work on that and meditate on that a little bit more right now, and I’ll see you at dinner.
Lily: I will. This is going to go so great. Everything’s going to be fine. I can feel it. I really have taken it down a notch.
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Discussion
So where has Lily been? It turns out that she is away at a place called Rolling Hill Farms. It seems like a relaxing environment where she can meditate, do yoga, and speak to a therapist.
The therapist helps Lily to think about why she was stressed out at work. Lily realizes that she was trying too hard. She is glad that she’s learned some methods for taking it down a notch.
The therapist thinks that it might be a good idea for Lily to write to her co-workers and explain what happened. Lily isn’t sure if that’s a good idea, but the therapist convinces her to try it.
Do you believe that Lily has actually figured out how to relax? What are some things you do to take it down a notch?
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