thick skin

although i treat people in a nice way, they judge me in a wrong way! i use to get upset and try my best just to explain to them what i mean, but now i learnt to be have thick skin, and just go with flow.. when i am right no need to explain your exceuses! and continue your life :)

we also say this expression in persian 

Cool,that’s a nice expression,i like it thank you!

Ola, at least, ı didnt critize you ,but you did it severely :)))) 

Rule of thumb: Don’t put it all out there if you don’t want to be criticised :)

I certainly learned to toughen up in order to protect myself from unwanted criticism. I armor and shield my heart from anyone who wants to step on my toes. 

Taken as a whole, I don’t mind receiving some tactful constructive criticism from closest friends and colleagues…

ohhh, there is no any person in the world escape from criticisms of other people..always there are different kind of circles around us,family,relatives,neighboors,friends that force us what we will talk,wear,act,...

its hard to live with other people’s strict ,rude criticisms.and it not easy to face them always.

everyone  can have thick skin but there will be thin skin too ,easily will be hurting ..

There is a bit another meaning of this expression in our country. We say ” he gets a thicker skin” when somebody is intemperate, lie without any without any conscience. 

Yes. I have faced much criticism in my life since childhood as anyone.

I was easily to produce an inferiority complex for other’s opinions,views, criticism to me when I was a child, such as poverty, unbeautiful…

I was restless when I was a child and my aunt always criticized me for that with dislike. She always said to me: “why can’t you sit still?”

So I didn’t like my aunt all the time.

I always cared about what others thought of me, what others said of me when I was young especially when I was a student during the period of my whole youth.

So I didn’t have a thick skin when I was young. And I couldn’t be confidence the same time I was unhappy.

Gradually, I grew up. With  increase of the experience of life, I finally understand that it is other’s business no matter what they say and what they think. The most important thing is what and how I myself do  and what and how I myself say.

One couldn’t control other’s thought and mouth and eyes, but could do one own.

    Suddenly I remember some sentences: if I respect you, it is nothing with you, but I am excellent. If I don’t respect you, it is nothing with you too, only that I am lack of culture. Or , if I respect you it is my excellence not you, it is nothing with you. If I don’t respect you, it is not your non-good, but mine. Likewise, it is nothing with you and only it was my lack of culture.