Learn English: Meaning of Fate

@Oluna ,Hello

I agree 100% with you.  Fate  doesn`t mean that we have to pessimistic, we should strive to be  the change if things are likely to turn bad for us. Been possitive always, if not, as you commented ,that destiny decide.

I believe in fate because there are some things that can happen and you can’t control them. I think Fate is something huge we can’t comprehend…and in generally your life flows in accordance with it. At the same time in daily life much depends on you, your decisions, actions…So we can change ourselves, believe and try to make something better. If we can’t do or change anything we want…so fate decided ))

Thanks dear S&W, I am glad you found my comment reasonable.

@mojtaba, 

Nice story indeed. It’s the first time I read this story.

@julito and imtiaz433

I agree with both of you :)

Well I think there is a very little portion of our life that is in our control. rest s controlled by Allah. and everything is written already what happens in our life. We are only given the choice of chosing good one and bad ones. whatever we chose, life gets controlled by that. :) :)

Maybe you read this before but read it again just for fun

Dear @S&W

It wasn`t you who said ” the older ,the wiser . ?  hehehehehehehe

Dear friends(mojtaba,shoba,scienceboy,Julito) Thank you for new year greetings.

@Julito It seems like you were not confused by choosing words“Sheep,goat,ram”.Did you read the news about many America medias were confused by this,they had no idea about which words is the right one.Honestly ,i don’t know either.But for me sheep is the best.

@shoba I will think of you and decide to eat more.hehehe

@scienceboy your explanation on fate was reasonable and comprehensive.Does a science student always excel at logical?

Dear S&W
Happy new year !! My friend, you are entering the year of the sheep.
God is the controller of the universe. We mortal beings can control things to a certain point and our so-called free will has also its limits.
For me, there is not such a thing as bad luck -good luck, everything happens for a reason.

@S&W,

My dear friend, Happy New Year, enjoy the festival.

Yes I belive in destiny. In this life everything has a purpose. And things happen for a reason. But believing in destiny doesn’t mean I believe I have no control. I have control over my actions for sure but there are things beyond our contol, aren’t there?

People just misundertand destiny. 

Sometimes people who denies fate think they control everything. But actually we even cannot contol our own body. We cannot stop our hearth beating or cannot make it beat again once it stopped. Destiny says “We are not God”.

In the other hand sometimes people who believs in destiny are tend to blame their fate for their actions. But they cannot as we have our wills. So you cannot kill someone and then claim that was your fate so you are innocent.

So we have our self control but we cannot control everyhing. That’s what I learnt. I just wanted to share my opinion. 

Hi dear S&W,

I wish you a very happy and prosperous new year. Enoy your spring festival and think of me when you sit to eat your special new year meal!

I don’t believe in fate. I think our life is simply a reflection of our actions. We normally say, “We reap what we sow.”

I am sure my life is totally under my control. But people who have had some bitter experiences say that life can be very cruel and unfair sometimes and we should learn to take things as they come along. 

@ s&w

Happy your new year

But about fate,if we have a goal and try for it surely god help us

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I believed an old saying“Man proposes,God disposes” which was concluded by our wise ancestor,what make sences in real life.For anything,There always has 10 or 20 percent was uncertain.We’d like to boild down this uncertain part to fate and luck.

Today is our Spring festival.Hope all your new year dreams come true!!!